He Wants My Virginity as a Prove of My Love for Him

Posted in Campus Gist   |   By Basildvalour   |   Sep 21, 2016   |   42 Comments


A female student of the Abia State University, Uturu has been hit by a rolling ball of disaster, confusion and tears. She needs candid advise from you and I on how we can help her out of this dilemma she has found herself in.

Love they often say is blind and can lead us to doing things we wouldn't have done ordinarily with our conscience devoid of that thing called love. It is a total clog in the eye and so long as a person has credited his/her heart into it, withdrawal becomes pretty much of an ache to the heart more than the pain the relationship is causing.

I was meant to understand that this lady is in a relationship with a guy and loves this guy like life, if not more than life and she believes this guy shares an equal feeling of love for her as well but things are taking the wrong turn. The family of the guy has refused to welcome this lady and see her as befitting for their son and adding to the negative issues and worsening situations, the guy recently told this lady that he has another lady whom he had known and had been dating even before they met and started dating. What a heartbreak.

The guy told the lady that the girl he had been dating is the one his family had known but because of the love he has for her, that he will damn the consequences and all that his family have said against their union and go ahead and marry her because he loves her more than any other girl. But on one condition which is that the girl will have to prove her love for him by giving him her virginity and allowing him deflower her. What a world.

Now, the issue is that this lady cherishes her virginity and will never want to lose it just yet but on the other hand, he loves and adores this guy so much that she wouldn't still want to leave him for anyone. What do we advise this lady to do?


teefehblink     Dec 9 2014

Be wise my sister

teefehblink     Dec 9 2014

Be wise girl

teefehblink     Dec 9 2014

My dear the guy doesn't love you,if he does he won't for sex from you now until marriage...all you have to do now is to break up with him and you will find someone who deserves you.

Fezzy22     Dec 9 2014

Please dont give it out retain it very well

Temliz     Dec 9 2014

A girl is abt to b used and dumped

Temliz     Dec 9 2014

A girl is abt yo b used and dumped

Mhizgloriathelma     Dec 9 2014

That is not love..he only want to use and dump d innocent girl

Lekiaphil     Dec 9 2014

Give it 2 him

mcanthony123     Dec 9 2014

My dear luv is Nt base on sex,b4 u Fall in luv wit sumone make sure u undastand d meanin of luv.b wise

maitogai     Dec 9 2014

Me too reserved my comment

Jollynificent-47     Dec 9 2014

B wise my dear

Joanbarbie     Dec 9 2014

My dear all I will advice you to do is to run From this guy and his so acclaimed love with your legs touching your head,cos no man who truly loves you would ask u for ur virginity especially with the tag "as a prove of your love to him," rather a man who loves you will protect you and wait till the day your body says yes, ie give him your virginity.Be Wise!

Deolalussy     Dec 9 2014

Don't think it twice. The man isn't worth your virginity.

confy23-06     Dec 9 2014

Sex doesn't prove love,if all he wants is to sleep with you......babe dats lust and not love.

Mandy     Dec 9 2014

The so called guy do not love you, don't give him your virginity all because of love. Mark my words, once you give in he will dump you for real. This man want to tarnish your image and destiny. Men are destiny terminators, once they done that they will ran away. Hit and run that's what they are. So sweetheart just keep your virginity for the man that love and cherish you.

mizviki     Dec 9 2014

Move on dr Dnt loose for anything

mizviki     Dec 9 2014

Pls don't do that keep it

thatbae_pam     Dec 9 2014

the guy is dumb, please don't

Juliet101     Dec 9 2014

Guys of nowadays.

Ehimwenma     Dec 9 2014

Please don't lose your virginity..it's far better you lose the stupid guy that gave you that kinda condition for him to marry you.

GoodnessEze     Dec 9 2014

Very funny

Mimi     Dec 9 2014

please dont give him ur virginity coz if he loves u he would let u keep,ur virginity is d only pride u av as a woman.If u loose your virginity to him he won't give u the respect u deserve he would tink dat if any other man begs u and tells u he loves u,u would just give him without thinking twice

suziequety     Dec 9 2014

Lmao ..funny couple tho

suziequety     Dec 9 2014

I don't think d guy is God fearing ..seriously ???? .. And you think he will marry. You .. Wat is d assurance. DAT he will. ...after he disflower you ???,don't be confuse ..it's obvious he only wanna play on you

kween_nuella     Dec 9 2014

Men ehnnn. They're somefin

mizviki     Dec 9 2014

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missglamour-23     Dec 9 2014

The guy doesn't love you, if he dose he wouldn't have asked for that....

Emecsther     Dec 9 2014

I reserve my comment

Surplussmart     Dec 9 2014

huh!!!phanny..its beta u b d virgin u re dan beign brokenhearted at last even if he fixes his soul via d relationship...

sPeciaL     Dec 9 2014

Lol..funny guy..my dear,the guy is just deceiving you oh..as long as his family says no,take it as no because even if he says he will damn the consequences,you are only looking for curse..i believe if he really loves you,he will wait.

lumee     Dec 9 2014

if he really luvs ha he will wait until dy get married. ..buh 4 d fact dat iz asking d gurl 2 sleep wit im 2 show ha luv dt 1 of guys trick 2 get under ur skirt.

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