He Wants My Virginity as a Prove of My Love for Him

He Wants My Virginity as a Prove of My Love for Him
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    A female student of the Abia State University, Uturu has been hit by a rolling ball of disaster, confusion and tears. She needs candid advise from you and I on how we can help her out of this dilemma she has found herself in.

    Love they often say is blind and can lead us to doing things we wouldn't have done ordinarily with our conscience devoid of that thing called love. It is a total clog in the eye and so long as a person has credited his/her heart into it, withdrawal becomes pretty much of an ache to the heart more than the pain the relationship is causing.

    I was meant to understand that this lady is in a relationship with a guy and loves this guy like life, if not more than life and she believes this guy shares an equal feeling of love for her as well but things are taking the wrong turn. The family of the guy has refused to welcome this lady and see her as befitting for their son and adding to the negative issues and worsening situations, the guy recently told this lady that he has another lady whom he had known and had been dating even before they met and started dating. What a heartbreak.

    The guy told the lady that the girl he had been dating is the one his family had known but because of the love he has for her, that he will damn the consequences and all that his family have said against their union and go ahead and marry her because he loves her more than any other girl. But on one condition which is that the girl will have to prove her love for him by giving him her virginity and allowing him deflower her. What a world.

    Now, the issue is that this lady cherishes her virginity and will never want to lose it just yet but on the other hand, he loves and adores this guy so much that she wouldn't still want to leave him for anyone. What do we advise this lady to do?





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    31 Comments

    • teefehblink on Sep 19, 2017

      Be wise my sister

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    • teefehblink on Sep 19, 2017

      Be wise girl

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    • teefehblink on Sep 19, 2017

      My dear the guy doesn't love you,if he does he won't for sex from you now until marriage...all you have to do now is to break up with him and you will find someone who deserves you.

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    • Fezzy22 on Jul 23, 2017

      Please dont give it out retain it very well

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    • Temliz on Jul 18, 2017

      A girl is abt to b used and dumped

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    • Temliz on Jul 18, 2017

      A girl is abt yo b used and dumped

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    • Mhizgloriathelma on Apr 1, 2017

      That is not love..he only want to use and dump d innocent girl

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    • Lekiaphil on Mar 28, 2017

      Give it 2 him

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      # Ha, broz! which kind advice come be this one? ... by shugarcane Mar 30, 2017
    • mcanthony123 on Mar 26, 2017

      My dear luv is Nt base on sex,b4 u Fall in luv wit sumone make sure u undastand d meanin of luv.b wise

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    • maitogai on Mar 19, 2017

      Me too reserved my comment

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    • Jollynificent-47 on Mar 16, 2017

      B wise my dear

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    • Joanbarbie on Mar 12, 2017

      My dear all I will advice you to do is to run From this guy and his so acclaimed love with your legs touching your head,cos no man who truly loves you would ask u for ur virginity especially with the tag "as a prove of your love to him," rather a man who loves you will protect you and wait till the day your body says yes, ie give him your virginity.Be Wise!

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    • Deolalussy on Mar 10, 2017

      Don't think it twice. The man isn't worth your virginity.

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    • confy23-06 on Mar 10, 2017

      Sex doesn't prove love,if all he wants is to sleep with you......babe dats lust and not love.

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    • Mandy on Mar 7, 2017

      The so called guy do not love you, don't give him your virginity all because of love. Mark my words, once you give in he will dump you for real. This man want to tarnish your image and destiny. Men are destiny terminators, once they done that they will ran away. Hit and run that's what they are.<br /> So sweetheart just keep your virginity for the man that love and cherish you.

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    • mizviki on Feb 28, 2017

      Move on dr <br /> Dnt loose for anything

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    • mizviki on Feb 28, 2017

      Pls don't do that keep it

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    • thatbae_pam on Feb 26, 2017

      the guy is dumb, please don't

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    • Juliet101 on Feb 24, 2017

      Guys of nowadays.

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    • Ehimwenma on Feb 23, 2017

      Please don't lose your virginity..it's far better you lose the stupid guy that gave you that kinda condition for him to marry you.

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    • GoodnessEze on Feb 22, 2017

      Very funny

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    • Mimi on Feb 22, 2017

      please dont give him ur virginity coz if he loves u he would let u keep,ur virginity is d only pride u av as a woman.If u loose your virginity to him he won't give u the respect u deserve he would tink dat if any other man begs u and tells u he loves u,u would just give him without thinking twice

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      # Hahahahhahahah exactly ... by GoodnessEze Feb 22, 2017
    • suziequety on Feb 21, 2017

      Lmao ..funny couple tho

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    • suziequety on Feb 21, 2017

      I don't think d guy is God fearing ..seriously ???? .. And you think he will marry. You .. Wat is d assurance. DAT he will. ...after he disflower you ???,don't be confuse ..it's obvious he only wanna play on you

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      # He might no marry her ... by GoodnessEze Feb 22, 2017
      # Exactly!!! First there is another girl.. The one his family knows sef.. Doesn't make sense ... by Ehimwenma Feb 23, 2017
    • kween_nuella on Jan 30, 2017

      Men ehnnn. They're somefin

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    • mizviki on Nov 18, 2016

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    • missglamour-23 on Nov 3, 2016

      The guy doesn't love you, if he dose he wouldn't have asked for that....

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    • Emecsther on Oct 26, 2016

      I reserve my comment

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      # Hahahahhahah ... by GoodnessEze Feb 22, 2017
    • Surplussmart on Oct 25, 2016

      huh!!!phanny..its beta u b d virgin u re dan beign brokenhearted at last even if he fixes his soul via d relationship...

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      # Remain a virgin o ... by GoodnessEze Feb 22, 2017
    • sPeciaL on Oct 4, 2016

      Lol..funny guy..my dear,the guy is just deceiving you oh..as long as his family says no,take it as no because even if he says he will damn the consequences,you are only looking for curse..i believe if he really loves you,he will wait.

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      # Hy sPecial, how can I be a marriage counselor pls? ... by tobs Oct 8, 2016
      # #hi tobs i have no idea oh lol. ... by sPeciaL Feb 14, 2017
      # Hahahahha love ... by GoodnessEze Feb 22, 2017
    • lumee on Oct 3, 2016

      if he really luvs ha he will wait until dy get married. ..buh 4 d fact dat iz asking d gurl 2 sleep wit im 2 show ha luv dt 1 of guys trick 2 get under ur skirt.

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      # Men like under akirt ... by GoodnessEze Feb 22, 2017

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